This is not a programme you complete. It is a direction you commit to. Each stage builds on the last. The work is the same throughout — the context changes.
Every significant pattern in your external relationships — what you attract, what you avoid, what you keep recreating in different forms — is already running inside you. The conflict was never really out there.
This work starts from that premise. Not as theory. As a diagnostic. We look at what your actual choices reveal about what you actually value, as distinct from what you say you value. The gap between those two things is where everything lives.
The mechanism is values. The territory is the whole of your relational life. The action is communication — building a language for your own interior, and learning to use it.
The work is simple. It is not easy. The simplicity is in what is taught. The difficulty is in the application — because humanness works against you. What you have dominion over is your attitude to yourself. That is what can be cultivated.
A vocabulary for what you're carrying
You can feel it. You can't say it precisely. Naming it takes power out of it. Not solved — named.
Evidence of who you actually are
Not affirmations. Actual evidence from actual choices that your values are lived, not just held.
Different relationships
When you stop projecting the unresolved conflict outward, the outside world changes. Not because others change. Because you do.
Most people who come to this work have already tried the obvious things. They have read the books, done the courses, maybe had a coach or therapist. They understand themselves reasonably well. The wrongness followed them anyway.
This stage is about understanding why. Not philosophically — specifically. We look at real choices in real situations and what those choices actually reveal. The gap between what someone says they value and what their choices demonstrate is the diagnostic.
Four weeks. Eight live sessions. Six to eight people. No recordings. No hybrid. We are in the room together — which means everything that surfaces between people in a group is material. The dynamics that run in your external relationships will show up here. That is not a risk. That is the point.
Each session is 90 minutes on Zoom. We work with real situations from your life — not hypotheticals. You will be asked to look at things you may have been avoiding. You will not be managed or reassured. You will be seen honestly.
This is a container, not a course. A course delivers content. A container holds a process.
When: Summer 2026. Dates confirmed with participants.
Beta price: £450. Standard from Cohort 2: £650.
Payment: Stripe link sent after a brief conversation.
You can be clear about who you are when nothing is challenging that. The moment another person is involved — in conflict, in intimacy, under pressure — everything from Stage 1 gets tested. Old patterns surface. Reactions happen faster than awareness.
Stage 2 is the shift from automatic reaction to conscious response. Not suppression. Not performance. Actual choice, in real time, with real stakes.
Stage 2 is available as individual work following completion of Stage 1. Expression of interest opens after Cohort 1 completes.
Leadership amplifies whatever is unresolved in the leader. The person who has not done the interior work does not stop leading from their unfinished business — they simply lead more people with it.
Stage 3 is where everything from the first two stages meets the question of genuine influence. What it means to lead when you are no longer primarily leading from fear, approval-seeking, or the need to be right.
Stage 3 is available following completion of Stage 2.
“He sees the blind spots behind the blind spots, and will tell you things that other people may be too scared to, in service of your higher self. Working with Meehir isn't for the faint-hearted, but if you are willing, it is well worth the investment.”
Nim
“He isn't afraid to ask tough or provocative questions, yet he always maintains a respectful and empathetic demeanour. My time with him has been invaluable and unforgettable; I gained not only a mentor but a true friend who always has my back.”
Karima
Six to eight people. Four weeks. Live, together, in the room. This is not a course. It is a container. Express your interest and I will be in touch personally.
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